out of control

Letting Go When You Feel Out of Control

They say that it’s exponentially harder to adjust to having two kids than to having one.

They were right. 

With my first child I struggled in the first three months with low feelings, stress and anxiety and once even crashed mentally and had to hide away for a night at another house as my thoughts were scaring me and my heart was racing. That was hard, but after implementing a routine and rejigging the balance of our (my husband and my) responsibilities and implementing a few tricks we read about, everything settled down, I felt confident again and raising one child became extremely doable and fluid.  Continue reading “out of control”